About Abortion

There is so much debate and differences of opinions regarding abortion in our country. Some people decide not to have an abortion for religious or cultural beliefs and other reasons such as “having a baby no matter what the consequences in the future because she may not find someone like him so she wants a baby with him”. Something new has been happening and is on the rise…..some women/girls have babies because they just want a baby for the wrong reasons such as getting child support and or having a baby with a rich man because then she may be able to benefit financially. This type of scenario is so sad and for the child being born….he or she came into existence for financial gains and not likely because the person’s mother actually wanted to become a mother for the purpose of raising a child.

The guys that are involved in this type of scenario often don’t have a good relationship with the child’s mother for various reasons such as: he was only looking for fun and not intentionally impregnating a girl and end up having to pay child support. In some cases, some girls/women want to have a baby with a particular man for reasons excluding benefiting financially or getting support such as: because she really likes that person even though she may not realize that he does not feel the same way and she decides to keep the baby after becoming pregnant unintentionally.

I think that from the point of view that the girl or woman has the right to choose independently whether or not she wants to have a baby once pregnant. But the problem is that if the man does not want to be have a baby with her, then she should have an abortion. The baby would not just be hers’ it is also his and if he does not want to have kids with her then she definitely should have an abortion. That is absolutely logical and it makes sense from every point of view.

This rant seems like it is very one sided or whatever but this is not about pointing fingers at girls or women in general. I am stating that girls/women have right to choose to have an abortion or keep the baby but having a baby for financial or other types of gains is immoral and it should be considered a crime.
Guys that also pretend to love a girl/women for financial and/other gains and have a baby with that woman should think about what a foolish act that is on the long run since most likely they will not get along and that will have a negative impact on the kid.

People (men and women) who do these types of things mentioned above don’t put themselves in the shoes of that child who will mostly likely suffer for their wrong doings. We are all born as babies and it is not difficult to picture the outcome of a child born as a result of such acts mentioned above.