Responsibilites

As we all grow up we tend to gather more and more responsibilites. from a very young age we get into school and learn pretty fast what our chores are at home. if the children have good parents who care for their children they teach them what they are reaponsible for and what they are supposed to do. as for myself i have always had responsibilies like chores and thenmy school work and so on and so forth. now i'm hitting the twenties and the responsibilities seem to multiply day by day. no wonder a lot of people "give up" during their college days. their is a lot of stress invovled with gaining a higher education and i guess the worst part of it is that even after 4 years of intense study your still not done these days. basically you aint getting anywhere without a masters or some graduate degree.
School has so much to do with the future of a human beeing these days its crazy. i would hate to go through so much pain and stress to grow up some more and realize that my education is not needed or cared for. i would hate to be married to a man who isnt up to my status and cant handle that i may make the same ammount or more money than he does. it could happen that i am an equal contributor or a larger to the houshold pool and i would hate for him to be embarrased or even tell me i cant practice or look down upon me for my high status. i'd love to have a job that i love to whatever it may be and would love to drop it like a hot potatoe when and if i ever have kids.
i really really dislike those mothers who have to leave their children at home and go make a living while someone raises their kids for them. just like my sister i would stop or try to stop whereever i am and raise my kids then go back to work. my sister i look up to her she has two beautiful boys 2 and 3 years old. she was pregnant with the first while her second to last year of law school and took the bar exam while pregnant with the second one. she got the results for the bar the day the second child was born and was ecstatic to find out she had passed nonetheless, she put all of it aside to raise her children then pick up her career where she has left it. she plans to go back in the work force when the kids enter school. i hope i can do the same for my kids.