My reaction toward con man

While growing up, I was taught to not use anyone's money. I was taught to spend only the money I have. I was taught to never borrow OR lend money to others.. I was taught to pay back the next day if i was to have no other choice and really in the need for money. I was taught to return the favor if someone was to spot me money or treating me to something. While growing up, I've began to get a hang of this, I've returned favors to those who were there to spot me. I got use to this to the point where I have to run around finding for lose change to pay back friends that moment. I remember one time where I had a big bill and wasn't able to find a way to break it... a close friend of mine end up helping me and helped me pay for my bill... as I was taught to not owe anyone anything, the first thing I did when i stepped out of the restaurant was finding a way to break my bill. When my ex boyfriends gave anniversary gifts.. in return I had to find a way to pay them back.. I know this makes me a freak but I honestly don't like spending people's money. Therefore, as my reaction toward a damn con man... It makes me furious in a way because I personally don't think anyone should use any fraud method to fool someone in giving away their money. I personally believe in order to obtain what you want, you have to find a way to gain it... I have no respect for con man or anyone who tends to use others financially and people who leaves big debts. I had a friend who was a fraud when it comes to credit cards... toward the end, he end up being in jail for a period of time... he came back out and end up realizing his mistakes and finally straighten up... finally decides to get his damn GED and finally began finding a job... always gotta go through a hard way just to realize his mistakes..