synchronization

So today we were discussing sex and whether it was synchronistic or asynchronistic . I think that it is definately think that it is synchronistic. Obviously anyone can get a prostitute or something and have that asynchronistic way about it but that's not really sex that's just masturbation. It is very different then when u are into the person and your with them mentally and just physically. When you are really synchronized with someone it brings you to a different level. After sex like that your mind is almost on overload and your just like give me a second where am i. I dont think that will ever change because like i said you need that personal/mental/emotional/physical feeling to really get to the ecstasy. I dont think there is an asynchronistic what of doing that. This weekend im going to try lucid dreaming and maybe there ill find the answers